Child Contact Proceedings: Three Hearings That Will Change Your Family’s Future

To say that proceedings for child arrangements - such as residence and contact - are three hearings that will change your family’s future might sound a little dramatic.

But when you break down what that really means, you’ll see that it’s spot on.

The Context: How Family Court Works

Let’s take a typical family court case involving children aged 5 and 9. Whether they’re boys, girls, or one of each doesn’t matter. What matters is this:

The court expects separated parents to agree on arrangements that are best for their children, given their particular circumstances. There’s no default rule that mothers get residence while fathers get a weekend slot. The law makes no such presumption.

But when you and your ex-partner can’t agree, the court may have to step in. In that case, you apply for a Child Arrangements Order.

The Three Hearings That Shape Your Family’s Future

Child arrangements proceedings usually unfold in three stages:

1. First Hearing and Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA)

Often pronounced “Fehdra,” this is where the court first gets to grips with the issues. Directions are made regarding Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) reports, and interim contact orders may be set.

2. Dispute Resolution Appointment (DRA)

At this stage, the court uses Cafcass’ welfare report and recommendations to help narrow the issues. The aim is to encourage agreement between parents if possible.

3. Final Hearing

This is where the court reviews all the evidence, listens to arguments, and makes a binding order.

If the case runs smoothly, it may conclude in about a year. By then, your children are older—6 and 10 in our example. And unless circumstances change, that final order can shape your family life until your youngest child turns 18.

In our story that's 12 years of formative experiences: friendships, fallouts, school exams, sports, holidays, and all the moments in between.

And at the end of the process, a judge or a bench of magistrates decide how much of that time your children spend with you, and how much they spend with your ex. No matter the outcome, your family’s life is permanently reshaped.

Why Expertise Matters

When facing one of the most important times of your life, why wouldn’t you trust an expert?

The Advantages of Direct Access Barristers

Direct access barristers are ideal for parents who want the best future for their family without breaking the bank. Instead of unpredictable hourly billing, they charge fixed fees for each hearing, giving you clarity and control.

For that fixed price, you get:

• Someone who knows the family court system inside out.

• A skilled advocate who knows exactly what to say, and when.

• Peace of mind that you have a professional in your corner.

Parents often underestimate how stressful it is to represent themselves. For most, it’s their first time in court. Even the most confident people can become anxious when a judge turns to them and asks: “What do you have to say?”

I’ve seen parents who were bold and assertive in the waiting room turn quiet and reserved once inside the courtroom. That pressure is real—and it can affect the outcome.

Get Support That Matches the Stakes

You don’t have to go through this alone.

At GetABarrister.com, we’ll find you the ideal direct access barrister to fight your case. Our barristers treat your case with the same care and importance you would—and bring their expertise to secure the best possible result.

After all, when you’re facing three hearings that will change your family’s future, investing in the right support isn’t just a wise choice. It’s essential.

Contact us today, and let’s get started.